Wondering

I'm in a strange place and time in my life...wondering where I fit in. Being single, childless and over 35 yrs old puts you in a confusing category in life. You don't really fit into any "category". You don't fit in with your married friends. You're a third wheel. You don't fit in with unmarried parents because your life doesn't revolve around children and their activities. Hanging out with these people can cause you heartache because it is a constant reminder of what you don't have and that you're alone. Time with family comes first so most of the time you don't really get to hang out with them much anyway. So again I wonder where I fit in. You don't fit in with people younger than you because you are not interested in going to the club and you're too old to go there anyway. You don't fit in the "singles" group at church because its a group of non-married couples. And again you're reminded you're alone. (I have NO idea why its called a singles group because it NEVER is...)So here I am searching for a place to feel I belong.